|  Inter-inning                winningBy                Christina Nifong
 N&O STAFF WRITER
 
 DURHAM — Ahh. If only life were like a Durham Bulls game. Here,                outside tall, iron gates, you wait eagerly to get in. Up in the                stands, there’s not a bad seat in the house. It’s hot, to be sure,                but someone else is doing the real sweating. Your hardest decision:                Will it be hot dogs, burritos or barbecue? Lest you get bored, the                ballpark even supplies games within the game for spectators: a race                around the bases or a two-man ball whack or a dash for a foam biscuit.                And in case these small contests seem too dog-eat-dog for your taste,                here’s a secret: No one ever really loses.
 Sure, most parent/child                teams don’t knock their ball out of the park. But even the “losers”                go home with T-shirts, a Durham Bulls baseball and a story to tell                for years to come. Prizes for all participants! It’s a concept increasingly                rare in our winner-take-all grind. But this kinder, gentler                world does play by a few of real life’s rules. Rules like: The early                bird catches the worm. You see, if you want to play in an inter-innings                game, you must first be chosen. And the choosing happens between                6 and 6:45 p.m. The pickers this night look high and low for the                cute and conquering. Soon, they’ve spotted father-and-son team Gary                and Lance Carrier, from Wake Forest. Lance, 10, is dressed tip                to toe in Bulls garb. His royal blue hat he takes off only to show                designated hitter Ozzie Timmons’ autograph scribbled on the underside                of its bill. “We’d love to do that,”                Gary Carrier says to Mary Kay Benton, after she describes the game.                Dad will hit first, off a T-ball stand. Then Lance will try to pop                the ball over the wall behind second base. “Hit it good, Dad,” Lance                says excitedly. Then there’s this rule: Ask and ye shall receive.                Ken and Yolanda Hare from Apex trot 5-year-old Blake up to the fan                assistance booth. Blake wants to race mascot Wool E. Bull, they                explain. Benton pencils Blake in and tells him he’ll hit the field                after the third inning. Which leads to: Know your                competition. Blake flies from first to second to third, arms pumping,                teeth gnawing lips. Just in the nick of time, he beats Wool E. to                home plate. (As does everyone.) But it’s a sweet reward for Blake,                who has been practicing in his back yard. He had a strategy going                in: slow at first and then faster and faster. “This is serious business                to him,” Yolanda Hare explains. The final rule? Whatever                you do, give it your all. Beyond second base, Gary eyes the ball                on the T and practice swings twice before he hauls off and hits                it, within feet of his destination. Lance tips the ball off the                T at first, nervous from all the excitement. Then he recovers and                gives it a solid smack. It sails over the wall. Lance runs off the                field, his arms raised victorious. The Bulls knock out the                competition this night as well. Which is all a reminder of how nice                it would be if life could be lived in the Durham Bulls ballpark,                where everybody always wins.                Reprinted from the final August 9th edition of                the News and Observer Day Section, Page E1. Copyright 2000 by The                News & Observer Publishing Company.  |